If there is one thing you can do at a bar or club that will
increase your chances with women tenfold is to look like your having a
great time. Remember the Cindy Lauper song "Girls Just Wanna Have Fun?".
This is probably the truest statement every made about women. Guys go out to get laid. Girls go out to have fun. So if you're not in the fun mindset don't even bother going out.
I was always a pretty popular guy and had lots of different groups of guy friends I would go out with. There was one particular "crew" that I used to go out with and every single time I'd go out with them I'd meet tons of hot women. At the time I thought it was just the places we were going to. They used to love these 2 or 3 particular places. I used to rave to people about these places telling them that you are guaranteed to pick up if you go there. Then I'd get phone calls from these other guys telling me that they didn't think the places were anything special. This got me thinking, "If these places weren't anything special, how the hell were we doing so well with women there?"
Then I realized what it was. What was different about these guys and most guys I had been hanging out with is that they were actually fun. We all laughed and had conversation with each other flowing. We all hit the dance floor. We were always smiling and making jokes. Women completely gravitated to us. They wanted to be around us because they too wanted to have fun.
This is probably the truest statement every made about women. Guys go out to get laid. Girls go out to have fun. So if you're not in the fun mindset don't even bother going out.
I was always a pretty popular guy and had lots of different groups of guy friends I would go out with. There was one particular "crew" that I used to go out with and every single time I'd go out with them I'd meet tons of hot women. At the time I thought it was just the places we were going to. They used to love these 2 or 3 particular places. I used to rave to people about these places telling them that you are guaranteed to pick up if you go there. Then I'd get phone calls from these other guys telling me that they didn't think the places were anything special. This got me thinking, "If these places weren't anything special, how the hell were we doing so well with women there?"
Then I realized what it was. What was different about these guys and most guys I had been hanging out with is that they were actually fun. We all laughed and had conversation with each other flowing. We all hit the dance floor. We were always smiling and making jokes. Women completely gravitated to us. They wanted to be around us because they too wanted to have fun.
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